If you are stuggling. You need to read this.

Wednesday, January 16, 2019

Dear universe,

Why are you challenging me? Pushing me? Testing my limits? Asking more of me? Where is it you want me to get in the end? Where are we going? I hope it’s something wonderful. I feel like I deserve something wonderful.

I’ve never written something to read out loud all my writing is for me. It’s for others to learn from, it’s for others to think about. I want to inspire others to move forward but how can I do that when I feel like a burning fire? I’ve sat in the fire, crusting for too long.

I’ve never been 100 percent honest with someone about everything in my life but I know it’s time. I want to grow, I do. I know it’s hard to do, takes time, but if I put myself out there in the safest of spaces maybe I will teach someone something or better yet, learn about myself. I want to know there’s a chance for me to be better than I am right now.

Right now I am someone who is friendly, approachable, helpful, and kind. I have been those things at my worst times. In the summer of 2017 when I had drug-induced mania I kept those core values running through my veins in the hallways of the mental ward. I talked to the broken with hope and the soul dying with dignity. It was the most memorable time in my life. Being in a situation like that changed who I am in a good way. I know it helped me grow. As uncomfortable as I was sleeping on a plastic bed or in the hallways of the ward where the angels watched over me I knew deep within I would get through it. I would come out better than I came in.

And I did.

My last therapist told me that I am a caregiver. I never thought about myself like that but it made sense to me. She told me I put family first, that I am strong, kind, and a wonderful human. She also told me I needed to work on being assertive, more opinionated, and open to doing things on my own. She was not wrong. She helped me through life.

With a little push, I found out I wanted to enroll in the exercise science program at PCC. Spring term I changed schools and worked my butt off until I felt like there was too much going on in my life to go on.  At one point I got so overwhelmed trying to deal with a social life and school and family that I dropped anatomy and intro to fit tech careers. This was because I needed to focus on me. It wasn’t easy to fail but sometimes the first attempt at learning doesn’t work.

In fall, depression, anxiety, and I passed all my classes with an A. The same happened in Summer. I proved to myself that I can do it. No matter what happens to my mental state I will not let it fuck up school. I will not let it mess up where I want to go. School is a stepping stone in my journey.

I am here because I do not feel okay. I am scared of taking steps forward but then falling back into depression again. I have anxiety colored butterflies in my tummy worrying me about becoming panic. I had a panic attack on the bus last Thursday. That was the tipping point. Tipping Thursday.

I know I am strong. I value myself. I am loved and cared for and I am enough.

I am Vanessa, some call me V.

Simple and sweet.
////////

You are loved. You are not alone. You have others and God. Trust me I will be okay and so will you, have faith. Everything will be okay. Email me if you want or need to talk
-vanessa

I CAN'T STOP THINKING OF YOU

Sunday, January 13, 2019

I spent all weekend thinking about you.
What it would be like to trace your skin with my fingertips,
kiss your lips, 
listen to your voice,
sing along to the same songs.

Three hours is where your heart lies. 
I long for the day it lies underneath me.
Give me a chance to love you.



I want to love you more than I already do.

GIVEAWAY WINNER + LIFE UPDATES

Sunday, January 6, 2019

You all! It's time to find out who won the giveaway! I am typing this out before I enter the names so it will be just as surprising for you as it is for me! Let's do this! Thank you all for entering and subscribing to the newsletter! I appreciate the love and support! Fun news! I have 47 people signed up now! I am so excited about that. Three weeks and so much progress.

WHO IS THE WINNER V?

.......wait....... let me figure how to enter names.....

OKAYYYY!

MCKENZIE!!!

YAY!




Okay, I will be emailing you! Thank you for entering!

Here are some life updates!

ZANZ came out with a new album and I love it. OMG. It's so good.

WINTER TERM STARTS TOMORROW. I am so excited. I've been out of school for too long.(THREE WEEKS!) I just want to study and learn! I am so pumped to see my people, learn, and go on study dates. School has been much anticipated for since the start of break. I am going to go to bed early so it feels like tomorrow comes sooner. Is the weirdest thing? I am just ready to learn. That's the best feeling ever.

ON A REAL SERIOUS NOTE. My depression and anxiety have faded. It leaves me with a little uneasy because in the back of my mind lies the fear of falling back into depression and an anxious state again. I need to learn to live the moment and appreciate being okay when I am instead of worrying.

If it comes back it comes back. Not like I haven't dealt with it before. Do any of you relate to this? I don't want it to come back but it's always in the back of my mind when I am in the first stages of being depression and anxiety free. It's awful!

But in more postive light! I am good!!

I HAVE BEEN WORKING OUT! Worked out the last six days straight. It was amazing. I am always laughing at how many cute people there are at the gym. I won't lie. I am a show off so anytime I want to impress a cutie I am doing something a little out there. Makes me laugh and everything. I just have a good time being obxious when I am not depressed af.

BREAK. Was so good. FRIENDS// COFFEE// TALKS// RAOD TRIP// AT HOME VISITS// SISTER// LATTES// GYM// DADS HOUSE// WRITING// NEW YEARS// READING// MAKING FOOD// TRYING FOOD// CHICKEN// SMOOTHIES// COOKING// BREAKFAST (I NEED THIS ONE IN DOUBLE CAPS// WAFFLES// HEARTS// BLOGS// ISABELLE// JAMIE// CLARK// BRYANNA// GERARDO// ZULU

I MISS YOU ALL! I AM STILL READING BLOGS! DO NOT WORRY!

WELLNESS NEWS LETTER!
© Simply Me. Design by FCD.