Thursday, December 3, 2015

The Girl Behind The Blog














I am the girl behind this blog. I have put thought into every post, typed every word, redesigned my blog more than a few times, cried while spilling out emotions, and laughed at the jokes I typed. BUT there is so much more to be than JUST the girl behind the blog. I am more than the girl you read about every now and then, I am me.

What you can't tell by reading this blog is how messy and frustrating my like can be. My blog is the one place where I can be neat and present myself in a put-together way. I love that my blog is the one place I know will always be how I like it. It's like a safe place to me because my world that looks past this blog is so much more complex, but you would never be able to tell.

At times, my life is confusing, busy, un-clear, crazy, hectic, unorganized. There is so much going on that the readers don't know. All they see is a girl who spends way too much time blogging about everyday things. Everyday things include: Struggles, worries, concerns, wonder, and other things alike. My life is not as put together as it seems and my blog deceives that fact dramatically.

I am the girl behind the blog.

22 comments:

  1. So accurate. Thanks for being real:)

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  2. It's weird to think that we think we know bloggers, and the people who read our blogs think they know us, but no matter how honest we may be when we write, they'll never know the full story. No one ever will. It's sad how alone we are, but also somewhat of a relief.

    -M
    The Life of Little Me

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    1. I guess the only one who will truely know the story is the person living it! I love your thoughtful comments, thanks M

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  3. Truth be told....no one really know our full story

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  4. This is so true, and so beautiful. No one really knows what goes on behind the screen.

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  5. I feel like very blogger, in some way, can relate to this. It was beautifully written & I definitely feel what you're feeling. Even though our blog doesn't show everything, it's an amazing outlet & creative space.

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    1. Yes, its an odd feeling. Sometimes it feels like your not telling the truth but becuase I am writing for myself I know that I am being truthful since I know the whole story

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  6. "My life is not as put together as it seems and my blog deceives that fact dramatically." Believe it or not, I've actually been thinking about this a lot. Like how we seem so very different through blogs/online presence, but yet we (or at least I) view everyone else's online self as an exact reflection of their "real life" self. Does that make any sense? I'm tired. xD

    So I guess what I'm saying is that sometimes I look at a blogger and I'm like, "Whoa, she's like...perfect -- she has it all together and organized." But like you were saying, blogs can deceive in that way and we (or they) are probably not much like that in real life. ANYWAY I'M RANTING SORRY. ♥ lovely truthful post here. :)

    love,
    abbiee

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    1. Thank you Abbie,yes, this is something that social media does best. Making things appear one way instead of the other.
      Feel free to rant, I will share my blogging space with you and anyone else who needs it!
      Thank you for the thoughtful comment and stopping by! :)

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  7. This is beautiful.

    Kate x
    www.theteenaspect.blogspot.co.uk

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  8. You are such a beautiful soul. Love your writings!

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    1. Thank you. Really does mean a lot to hear

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  9. 'Everybody has a chapter they don't read out loud.'
    I guess that is true to blogging because no matter how much you put on our blog, there is always something that you will keep to yourself and not share.

    -Kathie K
    A Sea Change

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    1. Sometimes I wish i could share everything but I feel like it would be really boring to read. Thank you for stopping by I appreciate it!

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  10. Good job. Vulnerability and honesty is beautiful.

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